My boyfriend cheated on me and I found out he started to ignore me him?

Hello, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and he’s at a point in his life where he has a great job that pays well. He works 12 hour shifts on & off, 3 days on, 3 days off, so on so forth.. we’ve had our fair share of ups and downs in our relationship.

I try my best to communicate with him my wants and needs and at times he’s not so receptive because he see’s it as “fighting” and tries to brush things off which hurts my feelings.

There are times when my communication does turn into “fighting” because he’s pushed me to where I’m not feeling heard or seen then he calls us toxic.. all this being said, He recently told me he’s stressed out during this time in his life because there are many things he needs to get done and things he wants to do which is work, pay bills, save money, and he wants to start focusing on loving himself more (which i completely understand) and he says he’s not sure how to feel about our relationship because he feels like he’ll “move differently alone”

BUT he’s also not sure because he does want to be in a relationship with me but would also feel bad being with me because he’ll have nothing to offer me for awhile?? im just not sure how to feel..

I almost feel lead on in this one year relationship because I’m so in love and so committed but he’s now pulling away bc life circumstances.. I’ve told him i understand how he feels and if other people can figure it out so can we, its just a matter if he wants to get through it together.

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I told him i don’t ask for much anyways just quality time and laughs but even then he at times makes it seem like that’s too much for him. I almost feel unloved a bit… Can someone please give me advice or perspective?