One of the most essential things that women look for in a man is sincerity. A woman always wants a man who is genuine in his intent to love her.
No woman ever wants to date a man who is selfish and only gets into a relationship thinking only of himself. Generosity, thoughtfulness, empathy, and sensitivity are all-essential personality traits that men need to have in order to make their women happy.
Some women will be unlucky enough to get into relationships with men who will not prioritize them. They will be also blinded by love, they are willing to get emotionally abused by a man who wouldn’t even think about her.
So how do you know you’re not being blinded by your love? How do you know that you’re not dating a man who is just using you for his own personal pleasures? There are some red flags that could help you out. Here are 14 signals that your man is just plain selfish and doesn’t even think about you:
1. He refuses to engage in talk about commitment. If he doesn’t like discussing commitment with you, then he’s probably using you for his own personal pleasures. He doesn’t care about you because he’s not invested in this relationship. You’re practically expendable in his eyes.
2. Your friends tell you that he’s not being genuine. Sometimes, the best perspective on your relationship is one that comes from the outside. Your irrational love could be blinding you to the truth, and your friends need to be honest to you when this happens. If they’re telling you that he’s no good, then maybe you should heed their advice.
3. He’s selfish in the bedroom. He doesn’t care about whether you’re happy with his performance in the bedroom or not. All that is essential is that you make him happy. He never asks you about what you like or what you’re feeling and so in the end, he’s the only one who is satisfied.
4. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family. Friends and family are always essential aspects of a person’s life. If he doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family, then maybe you aren’t an essential part of his life.
If he did value you and this relationship that you have, then he would have no problem introducing you to his friends and family. He would want your social circles to merge if he truly cared about you.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé