With all that I have my husband still cheats on me – Lady cries out

With all that I have my husband still cheats on me – Lady cries out. A lady has posted this online expressing her discomfort with her husband.

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My (24f) husband (29m) have been in a relationship for 6 years. We got married three years ago.

I thought our relationship was perfect, there was never any signs of anything being wrong. He came home on time everyday and left for work on time everyday. He was always affectionate and I thought our relationship was perfect.

But then when he was in the shower I saw a notification on his phone. It was from a girl on Instagram, I’d never seen before. I opened his phone with his passcode. He’d always been very open with me about his passcode and things like that. I’d never checked his phone before because I didn’t feel I had too.

When I opened Instragram (which I didn’t even know he had downloaded) I found a bunch of messages to small influencers who posted revealing photos. I am in no way against them but my husband was clearly flirting with them. His account had some photos of him (with some heavy filtering) and his bio said he was 25 and single.

I was shocked obviously and just kept staring at the phone. But I couldn’t stop looking. I took screenshots and sent them to myself with the usernames of the girls. When my husband came out of the shower he found me crying and on his phone. He quickly realized what happens and started to comfort me and tell me it was just a one time mistake.

I asked if he had gone on dates or slept with any other women. Then he got angry and started shouting at me that I invaded his privacy. He kicked me out of the house and I went to a friend’s home.

I’d never seen that side of him before. In 6 years he’d always been so sweet and loving. Sometimes he’d get angry sure but everyone did and I can’t blame him for that. I know men have urges to cheat sometimes because it’s just how they are biologically so I don’t blame him. I just wished he’d talk to me.

My friend told me I’m being delusional and made a good point about how he hadn’t apologized yet.

I thought I should post here after lurking for a while and ask for some advice on what I should do because I feel so lost right now.